Today my mind was preoccupied with this question. The final verdict?! I am not ready to clearly answer it.However, after some hesitations, confused and frustrated I have concluded that it is better to love.
When you hate, you destroy yourself from the inside. Inch by inch and millimeter by millimeter your ego is wounded by a tornado of negative emotions. Your eyes are not so bright and they don't smile anymore. Hate is like poison. It quickly spreads all over the body.
And one fine day you realize that you feel exhausted, weak and tired of this disease. Hate is destructive.
They say love is constructive. However, notice! When you love, you are systematically visited by fear. The phenomena of love automatically develops the fear to be rejected. You don't know whether your feelings will be accepted or rejected by the person you care for. The object of your love could easily spell a bold “NO”. And this expressive 2-lettered word is very painful. Fear intensifies. Anxious and agitated your ego asks your deep feeling to “flatten”. The fight is awful. The more explosive love is, the greater becomes the fear of losing the beloved person. It gradually increases in intensity and generously gnaws your sincere feelings. It may turn into jealousy, low self-esteem, possessiveness and hate.
Nevertheless, like it or not, love brings happiness. Many, many smiles on face... Playful butterflies in stomach... Romance, tears, good mood and fantastic moments, hope, fun, delight, sun, peace... Briefly saying, one thing is sure:
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